What do you send to a friend who is across the country and going through a very hard time? My friend tragically lost 2 dogs and was hospitalized in between both deaths - in the span of two months. I want to send some love!

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Catherine Davis · Answer

The Little Frog’s Guide to Self Care: A perfect gift for anyone who is going through a hard time. It’s just sweet. Sweet pictures. Sweet suggestions. I was given this book and was touched.

Kate · Answer

Gift card to a nordic day spa, korean spa, or hammam: Any place local to her where she can soak/sweat/float for a few hours. Just bought one for a far-away friend going through a hard time.

Erin Clare · Answer

Send Soup Dumplings: Do you have a friend or loved one who is going through a hard thing and doesn't live close enough for you to take them something comforting yourself? Please don't send them overpriced and over-salted soup with bad bread or sad, hard pineapple shaped like a flower. Send soup dumplings. These bad boys come frozen with delicious sauces and easy instructions and I'm telling you — they will not remind the person that they're in grief or trouble; they will spark momentary joy as they light up their tastebuds and they'll say "that's a friend who knows how to cheer someone up."

What Would Caroline Cook · Answer

Sympathy Gift Baskets: I’ve received this before and it’s SO NICE and tastes good. Easy to freeze too if you’re not ready for it right then and there! Sorry to hear hopefully this brings a comfort and healing option for them.

Mari · Answer

A box of sunshine: Go to a variety of stores and collect things that may bring a smile and are yellow.

Julie F A T · Answer

Zingerman’s snack box: If you can’t cook for someone or somehow bring them a meal yourself, Zingerman’s mail order is perfect. Easy, reliable, convenient, and of course high quality.

Miranda · Answer

Artisan Chocolates: A friend found a shop local to me and sent a "discovery box" when I was going through some stuff. Other things we have sent: tea, handmade candle or soaps, fancy vegan marshmallows.