please invite me to your indian wedding

i spend a lot of time thinking about fits I would wear to all the Indian weddings I attend but sadly there are so many cute outfits and only so many weddings. please benefit from my fantasizing.

this is especially for those of you who want to look chic at Indian weddings but aren't trying to drop $500 on things you'll wear only once. I try to optimize for things I can wear again in non-wedding/non-Indian contexts and that don't feel like costumes.