Gift Guides
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I recommend this to all parents and parents-to-be everywhere! The best gift I’ve ever received was on my 18th birthday when my parents gave me a stack of 36 letters, one written by each of them on each birthday of my life. In each letter they wrote about me, what I was like in their eyes, what I liked to do at that age, what I was saying. (My preschool teacher’s observations of me from parent teacher conference night, my concerns with friends and middle school dances.) They also wrote about their own lives, their relationship, what was happening in the world, what they were worried and hopeful about. I will treasure this gift forever

Guys! This phone is brilliant. I received mine last week and it's been changing my brain chemistry... I still have all the things I need (iMessage, WhatsApp, Uber, Maps), nothing I don't, and it syncs to my iPhone so I don't miss things when I switch back. The perfect gift for your friend who complains about their screentime (and it's $20 so it's REALLY ideal for under-$25 gift exchanges)!

I’ve been a J Crew claw clip loyalist up to now, but these Undo clips are so damn sturdy —and so many pretty claws/sizes to choose from. Put them in all your bags or drawers, and on every counter in your house.

It’s tiiimmmmmeeee!! The holidays are my Super Bowl and gift giving is my love language, so naturally I take gift guide season very seriously. I spent way too long curating 100+ thoughtful, unique (and a few classic) gift ideas for literally everyone on your list, at every price point. No Amazon links in sight. Just really good finds, from things I’ve gifted and loved to things on my own wishlist.

Like a bath ball but for soup! Truly delicious flavors. Just add hot water. (One caveat: Misomaru only ships fall through spring.)

Love this more modern take on birthstones, with the extra pop of color. Also love that you have so many base necklaces to stack them on. Feels a lot more expensive than the price point.

A custom 3-4" needle felted sculpture of your pet. Is that not adorable? Eve's work is impeccable. Great gift for any dog owner! I've had this on my wishlist for years...

A midnight doomscroll, and there she is — Leah Kateb, triple Leo and Persian Princess of reality TV, practically glowing as she sings the praises of Lush Sticky Dates Shower Gel. I’m not that easily influenced, I lied to myself, but three clicks, one checkout, and a small fortune later, I had a bottle of sweet-smelling magic on the way. Blame it on TikTok’s hypnotic pull or the science of social proof, but suddenly, smelling like a decadent dessert felt essential to my physical, mental, and spiritual wellbeing. I was low-key hoping I’d hate it (for the sake of my future bank balance), but no — this isn’t just body wash. It’s an indulgent sensory experience, made with softening date syrup, aromatic vanilla, and luxurious sandalwood oil. BRB making this scent my entire personality. So here I am, sniffing my own arm in public — a willing victim of my trashy TV habits, the evil algorithm, and the dopamine hit that comes with a well-spent impulse buy in late-stage capitalism. ~ excerpt from my substack

I always try to put out a carafe of water and a glass or two in my guest room when loved ones come to visit. this set would make such a stunning gift--or gift to yourself for your own bedside table! it's such a simple but luxurious touch. I love this one too for a more minimal look!

I received this as a gift from my friend last year for my birthday, SO good. "A zine about the sick and twisted hobbies of rich people throughout history. Topics include Renaissance pornography, the most expensive perfume in the world, an anorexic Austrian empress, pineapples, pubic hair, French dentistry, squirrels, country manors, “and more.”"

RESTAURANT-LEVEL CURRY IN A HURRY. Read that again! It’s a dinner party-worthy meal that you can throw together in under 30min. These are reminiscent of Japanese curry cubes, but with the layered spice of Thai cooking — turmeric, galangal, lime leaf, and green chilis. Just add protein, veggies, and BOOM! Edit: eating this right now with carrot medallions, zucchini, bell peppers, and broccoli. I swapped the water for coconut milk. SO GOOD!

my mum is an amateur cinephile (in that she loves to watch movies, but is constantly asking me what to watch), so for her birthday the sibs put our brains together and came up with a list of 100 movies and tv shows — of all genres and vintages — that we’d recommend to her. we created a flash card for each with the genre, which of her subscriptions she could stream it on, and a short description of the plot tailored to why she’d like it instead of the jacket sleeve blurb. we put them all in an old wooden recipe box and now anytime she wants to watch something, she files through until something strikes her fancy. we’ve added “expansion pack” sets of cards for future holidays to update it with more recent flicks too.

Give it as a gift or use it to wrap a gift.

Did you know there's a map where you can look up almost any NYC address, see what it looked like in the 1940s, and then order a print of it? Between 1939 and 1941, the Works Progress Administration collaborated with the NYC Tax Dept to collect photographs of most NYC buildings, and there's a site that's made it super easy to order prints. It's the coolest thing in the world and makes a GREAT gift.

stoov makes cute heated stuff. this pad is sort of sheepskin adjacent in shape and texture (though it’s meant to sling over a chair) and my dogs spend every minute of the day on it in winter. cozy infrared heat, good for humans too!

It's one of American bar/restaurant culture's biggest faux pas to not have bag hooks and/or a lil table to put your bag on at every seat. Bag on the floor is bad luck, bag in your lap is uncomfortable, and these rounded chair backs aren't giving me anything to work with. BYOBag hook culture is here. Nothing makes me feel more like my jewish mother than pulling out this bad boy. In fact, my mom was obsessed when she saw it and so I gifted one to her. (We both have the SILVER one.)

this is crafted by one of the few remaining incense makers in Kyoto, and it smells like you knocked over a well of deep blue ink and it is dripping onto parchment while the monks chant and burn frankincense in the next room.

why be a nasty badger when you’re trying to get where you’re going but sharing the space and air with tons of strangers? it brings down the vibrations for all. cut somebody some slack, help them with their luggage, wash your hands, wait your turn, whatEVA! any small positive thing helps keep a shit hill from being a shit mountain!

So many uses. One of my most reached for kitchen items..and a great housewarming gift!

Such a cute idea, and such cute colors, too. On my wish list!

How sweet is this? I secretly want one for me, but I think my Mom would love one for her too.

A framed e-ink display that dynamically updates to show a collage of the birds heard most recently near your home. You can order a kit that you assemble yourself or this ready-made version, while supplies last. This is a one-man hobby project, so he may sell out fast.

I desperately want this martini table (and everything else from this brand).

For his first Christmas, I got my nephew a red toolbox. Every year since, I've added a tool: a good pair of pliers, a great hammer, an excellent wrench, a sturdy measuring tape. I'll keep adding to it as the years go by. By the time he leaves for college, he'll have a legit set of tools.

Find your local frame store, bring in your thrifted frame and art, and they’ll mat it for you!

Rotund.

An all timer for me personally

OK I have overthought sharing this here but I'm going for it. I'm a proud finalist in the 2026 Etsy Design Awards competition, and they have a "People's Pick" category. The seller whose item gets the most favorites will win $5,000 USD. If you could take the time to click on the link, then hit the favorite (heart) button in Etsy (that's all it takes to vote) I would be forever, forever grateful!! The contest runs til October 8. Thanks so much for the love!

I got a vintage one from Etsy and love having it in my kitchen. when I love a recipe, I write it out on a little card and stick it in here. then I can rifle through and pull out a favorite. my mom now writes out childhood favorite recipes and gives them to me to add too :) this also makes a great gift for a friend (include a few favorite recipes)

Found my daughter’s pair of walkie talkies and she was so pumped to bring to a friend’s house! I feel like this is such a good gift for a kid 3-8 years old! Endless laughs and funny “over and outs” “10-4” “copy!”