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Alain de Botton

Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person

Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person

A widely read 2016 New York Times essay by Alain de Botton exploring the complexities of love and relationships.

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  • Alex Katz
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    “I once heard this was the most-read article of 2016 in the NYTimes. it found me a few years later, and when it did I understood it's popularity. beyond the enticing title, it's a fascinating take on love relationships - how they've evolved over time and why they can bring up so much challenge. we humans are complex creatures! it poses some interesting perspectives to consider.”

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