Queer Recognition, Estrangement, and the Great Grey Area in Between

“DEMETRIS PAPADIMITROPOULOS CONSIDERS THE BOOKS FAMILIES WE KEEP AND FAMILIES WE LOSE A literary-cultural essay on Rin Reczek and Emma Bosley-Smith’s “Families We Keep” and Reczek’s “Families We Lose,” examining what happens after coming out, when disclosure gives way to questions of recognition, authority, obligation, and family permanence. Through stories of naming, care, dependence, estrangement, and return, the piece considers what being a parent still entitles someone to ask of an adult child – and whether staying, leaving, or coming back can ever be understood apart from the material and emotional structures that make family both relationship and inheritance.”