something normal in your family that you found out is actually unhinged? thought my whole life that licking a q tip before using it was normal and found out only a few months ago that is, in fact, mildly psychotic behavior

ways to make a 30th birthday party EXTRA exciting? currently planning for my bday pool party next month (high school musical 2 theme or “13 going on 30” concept)! i’m considering a bounce house… but wondering if there are any other less-involved ways to up the ante. hiring a magician?? playing an elaborate game?? something equally exciting?? it will be daytime and my baby will be in attendance but he’s COOL and will mainly be the responsibility of my husband for the day.