Be “cringe”

At the ripe age of 41 I’m finally starting to accept myself in all of my “cringe.” Why are we told it’s best to reject and hate things? Loving things enthusiastically and with abandon should be a positive character trait not fodder for condescension and dismissal. Never let anyone criticize you for loving/liking too much. This is the first (or 100th??) step to not giving a f***