Requests from Sterling Graves

A two for one request. I’m going through a pretty rough breakup and would love to hear what helped you through something similar. A place to go, a silly little routine, a mind trick, a distraction, whatever made things feel a little lighter or helped you find your footing again. I’m also feeling ready to look inward, chase a few more dreams, and build healthier habits. If there are books, apps, tools, podcasts, or rituals that have helped you do that, I’d love to hear them. Thank you in advance.

Headed to Chicago next month and would love all of your recommendations! I'm looking for your favorite bookstores, local coffee shops, must-see views, great restaurants, and small businesses for a little shopping :)

I'm looking to get into loose leaf tea! What brands/online shops do you trust when purchasing? I'm usually a black tea + honey guy, but would love to try all types that come with good recs :)

I am headed to Portland, Maine in July and I'm looking for all the recommendations - coffee shops, restaurants, coastal views, bars, places to shop, hidden gems, etc. What are some of your favorite spots? Thanks!