A bidet toilet attachment and a grabber claw thingy, and if you can your time

Ya butt hole and vagina have become unexpectedly close companions, so wiping can suck, and your abs are shredded so reaching can suck.

Pain and birth can also be isolating - people helpfully came to do chore stuff but managing that m was tiring and made me feel “on”. Coming by with coffee or a meal and sitting, maybe bring like - a fun activity. House magazines or beading bracelets idk 😂 So much time managing everyone and baby talk - I like a little break and reminder that life exists beyond this moment in these 4 walls.