Not using Amazon and here is how I did it:

I have a household of 4 including 2 teens and I live in a city. I feel really good not using it and I buy less crap.

1. I look up the products I actually liked on Amazon and order from the company directly- This works 99% of the time and I often get free shipping. This also helps with quality control.

2. Books- Local independent stores, library, and Bookshop.org

3. Shopping locally whenever I can (again I live in a city)

4. Costco and Costco delivery

5. Ace hardware- local in person, online if not available

6. Etsy- looking for vintage if I can-I have to sift through a bit

7. Audiobooks- Libro.fm and Libby (library) instead of audible

8. StoryGraph instead of goodreads

9. The link has more info/ideas