I was watching a really upsetting documentary about a fat fetishist who started a cult-like collective called Pearadise, where he preached body positivity and yet totally gaslit everyone and trampled their boundaries and broke their will until they had nothing left. He’s asked why he has this need to objectify and control fat women and he’s like “that’s the million dollar question” and then, as if by way of explanation, says “look around you, and if it tingles then it’s right.”
And I was like “yeah, that’s how I feel about jewelry not humans you freaking creep.”
2 days ago