I met my boyfriend because:
- Three years ago, I took an oil painting class.
- I started an outdoor painting group with some friends I made in the class.
- A year later, a friend I made from the outdoor painting group invited me to a bar crawl. I showed up three hours late.
- At said bar crawl, my friend introduced me to a tall guy. We spent two hours talking about art, kicked off bc he heard I was co-chair of an arts non-profit. I give him my number.
- A few weeks later, tall guys texts me and we start hanging out, often going to the same weekly bike ride.
- [Insert summer romance and crushing break-up here]
- AT THAT SAME BIKE RIDE, I met a bearded guy who had the same bike as me. We became very casual acquaintances.
- Earlier this year, bearded guy messaged me about a drawing I did and asked me out for a beer. I asked him to see a concert with me a few days after that. Then, then, then.
- We are now in love.
I don't know what the future holds, I don't know what will happen to any of us, but I can't get over how leaving my house, doing the things I was interested in, putting myself out there, and being open to whatever and whoever comes up has changed my GOD DAMN LIFE!!!
(applies to friends, jobs, creative pursuits.. anything)
10 days ago