And if Paris is out of reach, solo travel in general. Pick a place that you’ve always wanted to go, or just a place that feels in reach, and go. Don’t try to do everything you’re supposed to do there, just pick a couple of things that feel like you. Maybe try one thing that gets your body moving, one thing that gets your mind or heartmoving (i’m thinking museum or show or something like that), and one truly excellent meal as a template. Talk to the people around you, ask them for their recommendations. You don’t have to take them, but it’s fun to ask. Practice listening to yourself.