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in response to Sterling Graves

A two for one request. I’m going through a pretty rough breakup and would love to hear what helped you through something similar. A place to go, a silly little routine, a mind trick, a distraction, whatever made things feel a little lighter or helped you find your footing again. I’m also feeling ready to look inward, chase a few more dreams, and build healthier habits. If there are books, apps, tools, podcasts, or rituals that have helped you do that, I’d love to hear them. Thank you in advance.

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