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What Bobby McIlvaine Left Behind by Jennifer Senior

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Anniebraves
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Wow. Thank you for this. So powerful.

Nina
@ninaae25
Great rec. I remember reading this when it first came out. This paragraph completely reframed how I think about grief: “Early on, the McIlvaines spoke to a therapist who warned them that each member of their family would grieve differently. ‘Imagine that you’re all at the top of a mountain, she told them, but you all have broken bones, so you can’t help each other. You each have to find your own way down’.”

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What Bobby McIlvaine Left Behind

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Joy Fowlkes

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“The hardest part of early grief was trying to process alongside shared loved ones. I wish I’d read this essay years earlier… TW: this is a 9/11 story “Early on, the McIlvaines spoke to a therapist who warned them that each member of their family would grieve differently. Imagine that you’re all at the top of a mountain, she told them, but you all have broken bones, so you can’t help each other. Yo”

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Anniebraves

Anniebraves

“A poignant essay on grief, 9/11 and really what it is to be human. Tuck away some time to read this.”

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