saying yes & then showing up

Recommended by Val Brown

sometimes you get invited to something where you only know the host, or you’re lukewarm on the event, or, or, or! there’s always a possible excuse to use - but saying yes and showing up means so much!

the worst that happens is that you spend some time feeling awkward. the best that happens is you meet someone nice, you feel rejuvenated, and you remind yourself that it’s not that hard to show up!! i encourage you to try saying yes more!! love ur community ❤️

2 months ago

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Claire

@planetaclaireAug 21, 2026

💯

Marygrace

@mgtylrAug 22, 2026

I'm always tempted to avoid these sorts of situations but then I remember that relationships are a big quadrant two thing for me -- urgent but not important. When I can keep that in mind, it's easier for me to say yes.

Coofandy

@andrewseaAug 22, 2026

This also goes in the adulting tips rec. Showing up is like 80% of everything.

janelle

@freakflagAug 22, 2026

Love this! I’m growing very bored with internet humor around canceling plans. IMO it’s cool to sometimes just do what you said you were going to do ? Long live the rsvp

Val Brown

@vaaleriebrownAug 22, 2026

I totally agree - it’s become so normalized to say no, or flake! If I say yes to an event, I am GOING to

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