Keep an enemies list
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I know we like to be positive on here, and I obviously support that. But I’ve had a lot more anger the last few years (politically, morally), and I have never really taught myself how to make room for anger as an emotion (socialized as a woman, etc). But my list of enemies helps. Political enemies, men I saw on hinge, friends’ ex-boyfriends, René Descartes. You get it.
3 months ago
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@samuel
nah, fuck staying positive lol
anger is a tough one for sure. therapist taught me it’s a secondary emotion - what i felt first was hurt.
but have to express it regardless - physically, in notes/letters, in music, etc.
you got it :)
@lidarichardson
Yeah it’s a hard thing for me to even feel a lot of the time but I am trying to carve out room for it ❤️❤️
@jaxstax
I did this in high school. Had a “shit list” posted in my locker.
@lidarichardson
I’m only just catching up
@rachael
someone told me about the witchy practice of putting their name in the freezer? 🧊 🖤
@lidarichardson
Ooh what does that do? My goth friends warned me that curses are dangerous
@rachael
It binds/freezes them from causing harm? Yeah, it seems messy energetically!
@lidarichardson
Ok I vaguely remember that there’s a difference between binding and curses from my brief witch days (every woman in Brooklyn had a witch phase)
@terrah
Oh gawd I love this
@meezstephanie
René Descartes LOL
@meredithpotter
This is not exactly the same as an enemies list, but my aunt passed away recently, and in sorting through her paperwork we found a handwritten list titled “10 Dead Ex-boyfriends” and it made us cackle (with some guilt).
@lidarichardson
Wow she sounds so cool
@dylaryduff
Obsessed!!!
@josefine319
Hahahaha
@haleyjokes
Absolutely love
@akoaviva
I support this so wholeheartedly
@caitlinkotula
Oh i LOVE this (immediately opens notes app)
@lidarichardson
😈😈
@londyn
LOL
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