The daily de-shed

I’ve always thought this was a universal thing, but living with my husband and observing his outfit habits (work fit, shoes included, all the way til sleep town), I understand this is not. I’ve been doing this out of habit for years (probs adhd related), inadvertently creating a pattern that allows my brain to shut off all the outside noise and immediately welcome myself into my safe space. Husband is very familiar with the phrasing “give me 5, I gotta change.” I could be in the comfiest optio...