plan private moments throughout the night

I hated everything about wedding planning and everything about being the center of a big event like that. we tried to combat the craziness of it all by carving out time to ourselves - we had a few moments to sit together by ourselves before dinner, a private cake cutting, etc. were people grumpy every time we disappeared? Kinda! was it worth it to have a break from being on display and remember the point of the whole day? 1000000%