A Video of My House Went Viral on TikTok. Now the Internet Is Telling Me to Get Divorced.

“The crucial, non-negotiable element is this: men must be willing to show up and do the work. It is not a woman’s job to manage his enlightenment, curate resources for him, or emotionally labour her way into his accountability. The responsibility to see, to learn, and to change rests squarely with him. He must move from a prompted helper to a self directed partner, and that is a journey he must choose to take for himself.”