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Good Thing Going by Lena Dunham1w ago

When I don’t have the right words to share with someone who is experiencing the wilds of grief, I will often share this poem. I first read it when I was a 14 year old grappling with my first true loss, and - unlike so many works of art we love as tweens - it has never faded or started to look cheesy or saccharine. It’s a perfect thing, growing lovelier each year.

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What the Living Do

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Good Thing Going by Lena Dunham

Good Thing Going by Lena Dunham

“When I don’t have the right words to share with someone who is experiencing the wilds of grief, I will often share this poem. I first read it when I was a 14 year old grappling with my first true loss, and - unlike so many works of art we love as tweens - it has never faded or started to look cheesy or saccharine. It’s a perfect thing, growing lovelier each year.”

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Louisa Cannell

Louisa Cannell

“This poem breaks my heart and soothes it all at once. A true moment of grief.”

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Heather M

Heather M

“The title poem! I recommend this poem so often.”

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